Cheating still costs you a lot of money, resources and time aside from your partners’ trust, your health and your relationship with God if you are a Christian.
You can be faithful if you choose to be;
Unfortunately, society just happens to support unfaithful behaviors and we continue to defend some men's lack of discipline so well that it is now acceptable in most marriages. It is so bad that we tell women to focus on themselves and let them do as they like at the detriment of their health.
We tell wives not to complain because they are the ones with the wedding band.
We tell wives to keep mute that they will come back to them at home because they are the one the men choose, not the women they are having affairs with.
We tell wives to tolerate infidelity because they have bore children for an unfaithful husband.
We tell wives to cover their husbands' infidelity for the marriage to work.
These same men travel abroad and conduct themselves.
Our society enables the man to act irresponsibly to his wife, it is now a norm but this is what we are telling new wives to do indirectly.
Stop giving the institution of marriage their best because no matter what they do, the man would still cheat on them.
Live with animosity toward their partners because he has betrayed her trust and hurt her emotions repeatedly.
Start living by an eye for an eye which makes the world go blind. If he has the liberty to enjoy himself as he likes, she also can find ways to enjoy herself as she likes.
Peace is not silence. A woman may choose to remain silent, but eventually the resentment she has been harboring will find a way to surface, and the outcome won't be pleasant.
Society teach the female gender that infidelity should not be an option in marriage, start teaching the male gender that infidelity is like blood cancer in marriage and should not be an option.
Society teach female gender to go on their knees and fight for their homes in marriage, start teaching men that they will be the priest of their homes when they get married.
Society teach female gender to submit to their husbands when they get married, start teaching men to love their wives so that submission would be very easy for the wife when they get married.
Society teach female gender to respect their husbands when they get married start teaching the male gender how to deal with their wives with understanding when they get married.
The wide gap created by society between a male and a female in the last generation shouldn't be used as a total handbook for this generation. Create a balance in the upbringing of both sex.
Do you have male children? It goes further than simply responding, "I have a son.
”Will you allow your daughter marry a man with the same character as the son you raised?
Your answer to this question should be a driving force to raising the male child to be committed, responsible and accountable.