NO MATTER HOW SIMPLE YOUR SPOUSE IS, PLEASE CREATE TIME FOR THEM
They’re not the “call me 5 times a day” kind.
They’re not dramatic or overly expressive.
They might even say, “I understand” too much.They may not whine when you cancel that date. Or complain when you're always tired.
They just adjust.
But hear me, It’s not because they don’t feel. It’s because they love you enough not to make you feel bad. But every "I'm okay" that replaces their real desire to be seen.
Every silence when they actually wanted to be held. Every time they say, “I get it” instead of “I need you.
It adds up. Please, don’t wait till you start missing what you once took for granted.
Create time. Not out of duty, but out of love.
Pause.
Pay attention.
Ask questions.
Listen.
Hold hands. Laugh together.
You don’t need a vacation in Paris, Sometimes, sitting on the couch and listening to their day is a love language.
Simple spouses are not emotionless. They just love differently, quietly, consistently, deeply.
Don’t make them feel unseen.
