IS IT LOVE OR LUGGAGE?

Too many people are walking into relationships like it’s a blindfolded game of musical chairs. 

You're hearing "Will you be mine?" and you’re screaming "Yes!" like you just won a lottery. 

Sis… Bro… did you even read the fine print? 

Some of you are marrying vibes and praying for sense later. 

Listen, a woman told me how she said “yes” to a man because “he was kind to his niece.” That was her reason. No kidding. Today, she's in a marriage where kindness is served with mood swings and passive aggression. 

It turns out he was only kind to the niece because she reminds him of his ex. Another brother said yes to a lady because “she prays and sings in the choir.” Now, she prays at him and sings him into guilt every time they argue. You see where I’m going with this?

Before you say yes, ask questions. 

Before you agree to forever, learn what “forever” looks like with this person.

 Before you sign up for marriage, know what you’re actually subscribing to. Is it love, or luggage?

The course Love Smart, Live Strong is that flashlight you wish you had before you tripped over red flags in the dark. 

I won’t do motivational talk here. I will give you clarity with stories, emotional intelligence tools, financial wisdom, sexual awareness, conflict resolution skills and deep questions to ask before you accept anybody's “Will you marry me?

” Especially for singles dating with purpose and newlyweds navigating the madness of early marriage, this course is your survival kit. 

I am not here to tell you who to marry. I am here to make sure you don’t end up crying “how did I get here?” after you say yes.

Open your eyes. Ask the questions. Learn the person, then say “yes” not blindly, but boldly, because you know exactly what you're walking into.

Blessing Egan