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Our first teamwork was where to reside, as we worked in a different state at that time, then childbirth came along, then a health issue that kept me away from my less than one-month-old daughter for close to a month, other things came crawling, all through, we were a team and made the tough decisions together. So one evening, I said to my husband that I thought marriage was only to make great meals, I didn't know they were tough decisions to be made.

I didn't know he was watching me, one day he couldn't hold it any longer he called me, babe, I answered I didn't marry caterpillar or house help, I married a wife, come seat here with me and take a rest.

When it comes to love life, you are what you do, in other words, If you love the love life, you care for it and how you and your spouse spend your time determines the strength of your relationship, spend it together and you feel connected, do your own thing too often and you might be sleeping on the same bed but you will feel worlds apart

How you propose and where you are being proposed to is not a criterion for a happy home. The value of your wedding band or engagement ring will not be a deciding factor to a happy marriage, neither will the wedding gown you put on.

Of course, there is no rush in life but there is a big difference between Ignorance and endurance. You can only endure when he has a destination, endurance with a confused person can be risky and a waste of time.

As the saying goes, life is in stages so is every relationship and I will be posting the 5 stages of every romantic relationship, one per day, kindly lookout for the daily postings.